Making a promise is the simple act of giving surity so people can get off your case isn’t it?
Yes, love I promise ‘ll be there! Miraculously, she is off your case.
It’s like a miracle cure. 🙂 The problem is that we can not promise anything! Simply because we don’t what the future holds. Making a promise might help in the short run, but there is something much deeper to consider.
Every time you fail a promise you pay with your credibility. You become less and less credible. This causes a bad character to arise, and now people don’t get off your case, even when you make a promise. This agrivates you, because you feel mistrusted.
How do you fix it? You have to start at the source. Your lack of character. Something only God can fix. Ask God to heal you of being a ……….. Consider the words of James.
But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.
Start saying no to everything and only yes after you have taken time to weigh it against your time schedule and priority list. You can not do everything!