It is the average attitude of humans to think that God wants to have a relationship with everyone. Although this is true, we forget that there is very strict criteria on which He will do this. Think of it this way : I would love to have a relationship with you, but you have to put down the gun before we can start.
Although my attitude and heart is for the relationship but I have very specific guidelines on which this relationship will have to be started.
John 14:6 – Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
Don’t overlook God’s desire to have a relationship with you as an removal of all standards from His side. To have a relationship, we have to pay the greatest price ever. Give your life over to His Son. Therefore, to have a relationship with God, will cost you your life.
Do you still have your own life, and do you make all your choices? Do you belong to Christ or do you think He belongs to you?